Kevin Hart, "It's Not Cool to Be Postive" | Joe Rogan

There's so much clickbait out there because it's such an effective way to get people to pay attention to things because as you said People focus on failure and negative and anger. That's what we want to see controversy That's what we want to see people want to see the anger. Yeah, and and you know We're I think that is because it's just the times It's that's what's cool now Is that what it is? It's cool as being negative, you know, you always have some people. This is a great example how you have people We mean you can talk about a movie. All right, we can talk about Titanic Wow, and Titanic one of the biggest movies of all time fucking great movie. Yes. It was great movie And one guy for no reason go I fucking hated it Why you ain't like Titanic fucking bullshit why I ain't got me I know why Now tell me why'd you hate it? I got time to talk to you about that The cool thing is just being different I want to I want to be completely opposite than all these contrary positive, you know, it's not not not that shit was ass What why Why was it ass you have people that just like to do that? Oh, yeah for sure and and and what happens When one person does it another person for no reason all go. Yeah, me too Yeah, that shit was ass man. I ain't I ain't like it either Did you see it what y'all talking about? You don't even know what they're talking about, but you just want to hop on the negative train, right? Because that's what's cool It's not cool to be Positive it's not cool to be happy. I don't know if it's a cool thing I think it's usually people that are really frustrated with their lives a hundred percent. Oh, that's the that's the factual side to it I did a joke before was like do you think Michael Jordan leaves YouTube comments? Like I bet he does now No Time of people that want to get mad and complain constantly about shit like that. Do you know what it takes to do this right here? Not mine, you know right here. I'll tell you how I feel writing your comments section Joe Rogan You can kiss my you know what that takes What do you have going on that you have the time? to just simply Be that negative and do it in this world, you know, it's just a mismanagement of your time time Yeah, so valuable and and I don't think people understand how valuable they can be if they use their time correctly Yes, now have you always been like this? Always fucking guy man, but always always really I find a light in every dark tunnel I Will find a goddamn light man. I hear it all you listen I'll tell you to wait on my back is so heavy of all the stuff that I deal with and I'm fine The reason why I'm fine is because I'm genuinely happy I'm happy and I'm not happy just because of the success success acts as a bonus I'm happy because I truly know the definition and The feeling that comes with happiness. I truly know it. I felt it I felt it when I said yo what really makes me happy and I look at heaven and Hendrix and I look his Oh, I Look at my wife. I go yo, I Didn't have the family shit when I was coming up. Yeah, I got one. I got one Look what I did. Look what I built These people depend on me. I provide for these people that makes me happy That makes me happy when my daughter comes up dad You're not only my dad. You're my best friend. Yo, I'm happy That's my world So everything else from the outside that comes in You're you're you're throwing shit at a at a at a bubble that can't be popped Mmm, it's a force field around me. Yeah, there's a force field around me because what matters What really matters? Loves me wholeheartedly and when you have that and you understand that You're unbreakable So if you don't add to that force field if you don't make my force field stronger, you don't you don't You don't get time from me my team Heartbeat productions the people underneath my umbrella. You're a part of my force field you believe what I believe We all see the same things. We want the same things So we march with the same beat You can't you can't shake that When you're an individual that's seen that and understands that if you've never felt that If you have no idea what that feels like then it's easy to shake you That's why some people are easily broken Being broken is not a hard thing It's not a hard thing. So those that do get broken those that do get down those that do get depressed. I understand I Understand I don't I don't knock people for it. Hmm. I don't knock anybody for it What I also understand is that the encouragement that can come from so many can add value for those that may need a little push Mmm, that may need a little amen pick your chin up It's so easy to be that positive reinforcement for somebody and add value It's so easy, but some people choose to throw that aside and kick while you're down. Mmm I try to put out the light of positivity Because whoever's out there you I don't know what it could do for somebody else But somebody else may just simply look at me say yo the way that he embraces his kids makes me want to be a better father You know the way that this man doesn't stop and waited every day he wakes up and he's just positive regardless of what's going on Makes me realize that this shit ain't so bad The way that he gets up and says hey today is another day. It's a morning Let's all be better than we were yesterday. Somebody probably needed to hear that The more that I can give that out and I can take my platform to throw good energy out. I'm doing my part Because there's so many that thought the complete opposite Yeah, I don't want to be a part of that that's beautiful man, that's and that's true. I believe you it's not it's not forced Right, it's not phony. Yeah, it's not fake This shit every day. I hear shit every day. It's very contagious, too Lady rolled out a window. She goes when you gonna make a good movie again I Said did you see the upside I thought the upside was good. What's that? Oh Shit, it's a movie. It's one of my movies. That's our I think think it's a good movie. I see that All right, ma'am you have a beautiful day, that's all right With such conviction like literally yeah, I could have said a lot of shit like she rolled a window Yeah, you could tell she still had the crank A lot of things that I could say to you ma'am. Well, you gonna make a good movie. It's snapping Got one out the upside you see the upside what's that? It's a movie so it's out now amazing that that's how she chooses to come out Yeah, I see it. I get it. She chooses to come at you with a negative. I get it every day We gonna be funny again Trying my best Trying my best if it's not working for you. Hopefully I do better soon What do you what do you what am I gonna feed into that and it what why right? Why why? For what yeah for what? It seems to have been working thus far. Are you getting this positive attitude towards life from life experience? Are you getting it from books? Did someone teach you how to find this? I'm getting it from the experiences and from the the real understanding of Perfection doesn't exist It don't exist yo. Hmm. We're in a time right now where people expect perfection You expect perfection. I don't know where this came from. I don't know what happened that this is the criteria for living My true understanding is all right. You got one life and then one life The goal for us is to live it to the best of our ability From the beginning to what said the end in the middle in the beginning middle You're gonna do things you're gonna make mistakes. You're gonna fuck up. You're supposed to learn and Then move forward with the understanding of what not to do and when you move forward life may get better it may not but somewhere along the lines is going click and Everything that I went through back here was supposed to happen so that now that I'm here I'm able to go ahead With such a high level of knowledge and I can make other people better. I can make myself better I could do more for my family something happens My dad is the prime example crazy drug addict in and out of jail Life was very bad very fucking bad for my dad son got successful son then took money Gave it to his dad. Here's your house. Here's your truck. Here's your monthly at this age I want you to live your life You'd have made mistakes. You can't rebuild and correct the things that you've done I'm your son. I love you. You can't go back and and redo You can't try to keep going backwards ain't about me. You got grandkids. Mmm Go be the best grandpop you could be for these grandkids. That's your focus now Where's this energy devoted to being a grandpop for the grandkids? Don't worry about me, but something happening in life something happened That took you in the direction to reap the benefits of your son's happiness and success My energy is now contagious enough and I hand it to you So now you're able to give that off to all these other people that you're around Something happens and that's in every single life in every life. I Understand that There's a payoff for bad eventually There's a payoff it can't be bad But for so long if you got the strength and the understanding to realize that shit will change It will change it's impossible. Just like poker. I don't know if you play poker or not I don't you play poker you can run bad forever, but it will eventually Turn around once you grasp the understanding of the game Eventually, it's going to turn around Blackjack you're never gonna beat the casino, but eventually you're gonna have a good run if you catch your run You'll do good get the fuck out of there. You waited long enough for it to happen here come Catch it leave Anything in life will eventually turn good no, but