Joe Rogan & Danica Patrick - What Women Don't Understand About Men

Testosterone makes you do really stupid shit. Does it? Like what? Well they're all competing against each other and they're trying to out macho each other. I mean you could go, there's a bunch of Twitter accounts you can go and see. What's that one, hold this beer? Yeah. There's a Twitter account called hold my beer. While I do what? Exactly, while I do everything. It's like people jumping off roofs and stupid shit. It's almost all men. Because occasionally a drunk girl doing something stupid but it's almost entirely men. So I would think that men trying to out macho each other. Are you saying men are somewhat inferior then? Because they do a lot of dumb stuff. Maybe their hormones are not in balance like ours. They definitely when competing against each other will do dumb shit. I think that's a testosterone to blame. Well they try to out macho each other. Yeah. Yeah. I mean some don't, some are smart and they don't. But you know there's, it's just a part of being a man. It's like trying to prove that you're not scared. What else is part of being a man? Tell me about men. Well what do you want to know? I don't know what else is, what else is very manly that women don't understand. What don't women understand about men? That's a good question. I have no idea what you understand about us. Maybe just speak from experience. Hmm. Yeah but I don't know what. Like if we ask a guy like what's wrong? Oh see that's just nonsense talk. See that's the day. Like how many girls out there are like honey what's wrong? What's wrong? And you're like nothing. Sometimes nothing. But really? Is it really nothing? Yeah sometimes you just want to like decompress. Okay. You know sometimes you just wound up. So is that annoying when a girl does that? Depends on the girl. You know. What do you mean? Depends on the girl. She's annoying, yeah it's annoying. But if you're in love with her and she's awesome. Then she can ask anything you want. And you're like oh nothing we're good. Yeah. So be with the right one? Oh 100%. That's 100%. Yeah if someone's asking you questions and you're getting really fucking annoyed. It's probably not the question. It's probably more the person. If you think someone's amazing and they ask you something stupid you'll just laugh. You won't get annoyed. And you guys can both joke around about how stupid it was. How the question was dumb. I like it. That's good. If you get angry it's most likely you're just like. Intratable. So you're just like ready to sort of fall over that annoying and to get out of my space kind of attitude. Because you're already annoyed with them anyway. You already don't really like them. Yeah there's probably something that's already rubbing you the wrong way and you're tolerating each other. Mmhmm. Instead of enjoying each other. Mmhmm. Yeah I mean I would imagine a person like you, a very intense person, you probably have a difficult time finding you know like if you get a square peg and a square hole and everything slides in together perfect and everything's amazing personality wise you know behavior wise. Mmhmm. I would imagine with someone like you it's very particular. You have to find someone who appreciates your intensity. Right? Yeah. Like a lot of times guys are they want a demure you know sort of like docile little creature like oh hi. Hi dear boys. Whatever you need I'll be home. Well we'll be. Supper's on the table. Over here when you get back. Right? And meanwhile you're out there with a fucking go-kart going 150 miles an hour in the driveway. Yep. Yep. Running five businesses. Yeah. Yeah you're. Going 200. Yeah so if you're saying what's wrong the guys are like fucking nothing. It's probably a bunch of other shit. That's really wrong. It's very insightful. Yeah. Yeah. Alright. What do you want men to understand about women? She's tapping her fingers. Mmhmm. Going through it. Everything. I mean I just think that we like to be you know we like to be told what you're thinking. I do. I like to know what someone's thinking. You know the whole like we're just you know just keeping to myself like tell me about it. Now I want to know what yourself is thinking about. I want to know about you. What's going through your head. Like communication. Now is this universal amongst all your girlfriends when you get together and talk about. I would think so yeah. Yeah. So the problem is like you look at a guy and say you know you really like this guy and you're like this fucking dude some crazy mystery. Like what's going on in your head man. Yeah that's not good. Spit it out. Everyone wants to know where they stand and what someone's thinking. Oh where they stand. Well because and where they stand and what they're thinking because you know what if they're thinking about someone else. Oh so you need to know. Yeah you just have to know. I need to know if you're all in. Yeah 100 percent. I'm just an all in person so for me it's not a mystery. Like you want to know what's going on my head I'll tell you right now. That's intense. Yeah. Yeah. So yeah for guys like off drifting you automatically assume this motherfucker is thinking about somebody else. Yeah what are you up to. Exactly that's what you're thinking. Yeah and yeah exactly you want to be able to ask. I guess guys probably do that too. And girls like to hear nice things too. Girls like to hear you know girls like to be you know girls like. Course. You know to be appreciated just like a guy does. I mean I think that's my advice most of the time in relationships I'm like sympathy goes a really long way because I know it goes a long way with me no matter what facet of my life it is. But you know sympathy goes a long way. So you know if your husband's in a bad mood then why don't you just actually start off with instead of feeling like you're under appreciated going hey baby you look like you've had a really long day and I'm sure you've been working your butt off like what can I can I make you dinner. Like what do you want. What's your favorite. You know you go oh you know what it's not that not that big of a deal you know babe I'm fine hey let me take you out to dinner. I get to eat the sympathy gets sympathy back and you don't. It's not it's not good to do it to get it necessarily but you should really feel like you are sympathetic like if they're in a bad place try and help them. That sound advice. Yeah. Be nice to each other. Just sympathy. Just be nice. Because most people go under appreciate especially in a relationship I think the longer it goes there's a lot of under appreciation and assumptions that get made about who does what and. Checks that box off and. Yeah and people get used to each other. It's probably especially with kids right. I mean I'm sure with kids it gets way worse. It's just there's a lot of time that's involved with taking care of those little suckers you got to pay attention to them and talk to them and they and if you have more than one like once you start talking to one the other one wants to just chime in you know and show you what they're doing and. You're like wait I was busy just trying to make sure you don't die. And now I got to deal with this. Yeah. Yeah I think people get used to things you know and that's that's part of the problem. They get used to each other for granted. Yeah they do. And then and then you know it's like I always tell people aspire to be the person you pretend to be when you're trying to get laid. If you could be that person all the time you would have a much better life. If you just like. I also love the expression for every hot chick there's a dude's sickest groaner. Yeah I don't say it that way. Yes I use more flavorful language. But yeah is that was that too much or too little too little. Oh yeah. How would you say it. For every hot chick there's a guy somewhere that's tired of fucking her. Okay. That's how you would say it. Okay. But yeah I mean I guess but that's not entirely true either. No I mean it's for the most part a lot of the times it's true but a lot of the times people don't appreciate. That's the taken for granted part. Exactly. It's with various aspects of your life. Like I always feel like that like I just got over the flu. Week and a half ago I had the flu and I was sick for like two days and then when I was sick I was thinking man I don't appreciate how good I feel when I'm healthy. Because here I am lying here aching watching Netflix feeling like shit going wow when I'm healthy and I'm working out and I'm running and doing jujitsu and all the activities and I got all this energy and I feel great. I just can't do anything right now. Yeah I just take it for granted. You do. You forget like you don't the joy of just being healthy. It just escapes us. We just so think it's normal. It's like a person you take them for granted. Yep. Yep.