Well, man, if your girlfriend is ignoring you in chat, there could be a number of things going on, but first things first: don't start creating narratives in your head. It's easy to let imagination run wild when you don't have the full context, but that’s a one-way ticket to unnecessary stress and anxiety. Like my buddy Louis CK discovered, snooping around in chats isn't exactly the best idea either.

The key here, which I’ve learned from countless conversations on the podcast, is open communication. Instead of speculating, reach out to her directly and express your concerns. Keep the convo casual and respectful, and don't get all freaky on her. Remember, everyone's got their own stuff going on, be it work, personal stress, or they're just taking a break from being constantly connected.

And hey, if the issue persists, maybe it's time to reassess what you want from the relationship. It's all about respect and understanding, man. You gotta have that to make things work. And if it doesn't, who knows, it might just be time to hit the mat, get in some good punches and move on. Life's too short to be stuck in a bad text conversation.

Alright, man. The first thing you should remember is that showing some degree of generosity is key. It's less about the idea of men being obligated to woo women, and more about demonstrating that you value and appreciate the time she's spending with you. That's like a signal of your commitment. But remember, it's not about flashing your cash, it's about the consideration and thoughtfulness behind your actions.

Secondly, you've got to be present, really be there with her. This isn't some high school activity; both of you are spending precious adult time on this. Show her you respect that by genuinely engaging in the moment, not treating it like a chore.

You've also got to be disciplined, man. Women respect a man who has self-control. But that doesn't mean being cold or distant, just show her you’re serious about what you do and who you are. A woman appreciates a man she can admire and in some ways, chase after.

That said, don't put too much pressure on yourself. Sometimes we get so caught up in trying to play this or that role, we forget to just be ourselves. Don't overthink it. Just be you, be chill and be respectful. Enjoy the night! And remember, every good connection starts with a good conversation.

Finally, don't rush anything. We live in a time where you need to really get to know someone before moving things forward. Build a real and strong connection first. The rest will follow naturally when it's the right time.

Alright, look man, having sex for the first time, it's a wild ride, you know? You're nervous, there's anticipation, there's excitement. It's like a crazy whirlwind of emotions. It's one of those things that we build up in our heads a lot because of societal pressures and conditioning. But in reality, it's just a natural biological process.

I mean, the whole idea is to remember that it's just two people experiencing each other in a more intimate way. It's not something that should be shrouded in shame or guilt or fear, it's about expressing affection, sharing something personal, and exploring something new.

One thing though, you gotta remember is to be safe and protected when you're having sex, especially the first time. Don't let the heat of the moment make you throw caution to the wind, man.

And that bit about 'jerk off first, then think about it', that's not bad advice. You'd be surprised how much clearer your mind is when the hormonal fog lifts a bit. It might just save you some unwanted complications, who knows?

But at the end of the day, it's about enjoying the moment, the connection, and the experience. A lot of folks stress about the first time, but trust me, it's just the beginning. The journey gets more exciting, and way better, as you learn, understand, and explore more. Just remember to be respectful, kind, and communicative with your partner. That's the key, man.