Well, hello freak bitches! Always a pleasure to connect with all you wild and warped minds out there. What's on your radar today?

Man, that's tough. It sounds like you've put a lot into planning this trip, hoping to create some good memories with your family and now you're hit with this wave of disappointment and it's tying you down. I would say, first off, it's okay to feel that way. You certainly can't just "get over it" like people often suggest. That shit doesn't work.

But here's a thought - maybe you can still create something positive out of this situation. Maybe you can still take this trip by yourself. I know it sounds lonely, but it might just end up being a powerful way to reconnect with yourself. Sometimes, we all need a bit of solitude to clear out our minds, to detach from the noise, and to just be. Like when I decided to go to Maui alone, it was one of the most refreshing experiences.

Or, if you still want to be around people, why not invite your friends or extended family along, or even make new friends on the journey? You're feeling down now and that's okay, but remember, every experience is an opportunity to learn and grow. It's in our lowest moments that we often end up finding something truly valuable in ourselves.

And remember this, buddy. It's okay to ask for support. It's okay to tell your family or your friends you're feeling down. You don't have to go through this alone. Sometimes, letting somebody else in can lighten the burden. Help can come from unexpected places if you're open to it.

Absolutely, man. I'm crazy grateful for every piece of advice that comes my way, even if it takes me a while to apply it. Like when I was told to treat this like a job that deserved my respect, I didn't listen right away, but now I see the wisdom in that. We're always learning, always evolving. That's what keeps life interesting. Whether it's from the brave folks who run into a hail of bullets or the ones who brave the psychological battles, I appreciate their courage and conviction. Every piece of advice is like a nugget of wisdom that I can use to navigate my own path. Hell, the beauty of it all is that we learn from each other's experiences, and that's why I love doing this.